Ups and Downs

As most of you know, Ruby is my very sweet and VERY sensitive child. Abby is my electric spitfire with a giant spirit and a knack for bugging (hitting) Ruby. I can't stand it anymore. But, I hate to say, it bothers me more having to listen to Ruby cry 5 times a night because Abby scratched, hit, pulled hair, threw something at her. Then I put Abby in time-out and Ruby whines more because she is upset that Abby is crying!!!! As of yesterday Anthony and I devised a new plan: Operation Strike Back. Ruby officially has the green light to hit back - only on her arms or legs or back. So yesterday Abby scratched Ruby's cheek and I immediately told her instead of whining to mommy, hit her back. Ruby ran over to her and hit her on the back. I was so proud of her, however, Abby laughed hysterically, climbed on the arm of the couch and jumped off. She is probably thinking "this is a fun new game!!!". The up is that Ruby didn't whine. She stood up for herself and it is a BIG step in the right direction.